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Welcome [Jun. 23rd, 2007|12:32 am]
Welcome to a different kind of poly discussion board. A place where we can talk about all the good things in our lives and lifestyles, where we can share our joys and sorrows.

Welcome to a different form of polyamoury, where life is not a frantic struggle to "score" with as many people as possible, or about collecting partners or experiances. Where life is merely about taking things as they come, and celebrating what you have.

I want to make new friends, meet other passive polys, and talk about our choices and the lives we lead.

I'm 24, married to a wonderful man whose 25 and together we're part of a little trapazoid with another slightly older couple. I share my life and hobbies between two men, and am as content as could be.

I coined "polycozy" after discussing with my boyfriend's wife about how they're "passive polys," if an opportunity arises, they may take it and see where it leads. They don't actively cruise for more partners, they don't have a preset goal of what they need to complete "their family." I'm the first mistress her husband has taken, and they are happy because I fit. But they didn't set out to look for me.

What is your story? How did you come to be the family you are? Or are you still on the journey? Let's pull up some comfy chairs and chat.

[User Picture]From: twisted_times
2008-01-10 06:39 pm (UTC)

I'm a bit of a "passive poly" too. It's not like I go out of my way to find more loves for my life, but I am always open to the possibilities.

From personal experience, I've found that if I go out of my way to actively hunt for new partners, I usually fall flat on my face at every attempt. The numver of times I've actively pursued someone are few and far between for me and I only do it when I feel there's a definite spark of attraction there; I'm quite flirt-blind, so if I've noticed that spark, the chances are so have my friends and encouraging me to take it further too. ;p

I like being "polycozy" - there's a lovely feeling of contentment in simply relaxing with your loves on the sofa snuggling and watching TV. Despite the horny wishes of others wating to live their lives vicariously through mine, I do not have a 24-hour orgy every day of the week to keep me occupied!

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